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Writer's pictureJae Byrd Wells

Making Memories on a Bridge

Updated: Jun 9, 2024

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In a world that sometimes feels like it's moving too fast, it's important to slow down and make time for creating memories. Memories are what make life meaningful and can bring joy and happiness in our everyday lives. But creating memories doesn't have to be expensive or extravagant - in fact, some of the best memories can be made on a small budget.

Finding cheap entertainment for a small budget may seem challenging, but it's all about being creative and resourceful. Some of the best memories are made when we least expect it, and often in the simplest of moments. Whether it's a picnic in the park, a game night at home, or a walk in nature, there are plenty of ways to create lasting memories without breaking the bank. One of my favorite ways to make memories on a budget is by exploring local parks or hiking trails. Nature has a way of bringing people together and creating memorable experiences. Whether it's watching a sunset, having a picnic by a lake, or simply taking a leisurely stroll through the woods, these moments can bring a sense of peace and connection that will be remembered for years to come.

Another budget-friendly way to create memories is by hosting a movie night at home. Whether it's a classic film or a new release, gathering friends or family for a cozy movie night can be a fun and memorable experience. Add some popcorn, blankets, and a few snacks, and you've got yourself a simple yet enjoyable evening that will leave everyone with lasting memories.

Today was supposed to be a special day for the kids and I. We had planned to go to a secret spot that we like to call the waving bridge. It's a beautiful location where we can sit on a bridge overlooking two major highways that converge together. We call it the waving bridge because we like to wave at the passing traffic below. Unfortunately, we ended up arriving at the location right at sundown so we decided to continue making memories on the bridge. Disappointed that nobody would be able to see us waving, we decided to make the most of our evening and celebrate Taco Tuesday instead. We pulled out our tacos from Taco Bell and enjoyed our meal under the beautiful city street lights that made diamonds on the run off creek below.

As we sat on the bridge, we reminisced about the many memories we have made at this special spot. From seeing parade of buses pass by to semis blowing their horns and rattling the bridge, each visit to the waving bridge has been a unique experience. We've even had some not-so-friendly encounters, like people flipping us off as we waved at them from the bridge. But despite the occasional negative response, we have always enjoyed our time at the waving bridge. It all started as a simple and fun tradition that didn't cost a dime but brought smiles to both our faces and those of the passing drivers. It's amazing how a small gesture like waving at strangers can brighten someone's day, even if we may not see the immediate effect.

One memorable moment was when an ambulance turned on their signal for us as they passed by. It was a small but heartwarming gesture that reminded us of the joy we bring to others by simply waving and spreading positivity. And even though our timing was off today, our impromptu Taco Tuesday celebration at the waving bridge was a reminder of the little things that bring us joy and connect us to the world around us. This special place will always hold a special place in our hearts as a reminder of the power of simple gestures and the joy of spreading happiness to others.

After we left the picnic spot, I cradled my daughter and said, "In twenty years from now, you're going to bring your kids and have a picnic here."

"If it's still here."

I mused, "You're going to tell your kids how you miss watching your mom jumping up and down and waving at the traffic."

"Um. No. That's me. I'm doing that."

In a world where material possessions can sometimes overshadow the value of experiences, it's important to remember that memories are what truly matter. It's not about how much money you spend, but the quality of time you spend with loved ones that creates lasting memories. So next time you're looking for entertainment on a small budget, remember that some of the best memories are made in the simplest of moments. Take the time to slow down, be present, and create memories that will last a lifetime.





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